Popular Questions I’ve Been Asked

How do you overcome your biggest fear?

 

1) Explore your reasons behind the fear and challenge them 2) Learn some relaxation techniques which you can practice and use when confronting the fear 3) Expose yourself to the fear a little at a time, to allow yourself to adjust 4) Keep persisting – it will work!

(Since it is quite challenging, it is often helpful to go through these steps with a counsellor. A counsellor can teach you how to relax, help you come up with ways to challenge negative thoughts, and help you feel safer as you face your phobia. Always seek professional help if your phobia is interfering with your daily life or causing you significant distress.)

 

Do you believe in giving someone a second chance?

Posted on June 30, 2011 by Kevin Humphrys

It would be lovely to be able to be anecdotal and suggest we ALL deserve a second chance. But what about the violent partner, or the emotionally abusive friend? Of course we are all very capable of some wrong-doing, but a generally good exercise which can help you decide whether to give someone a second chance is to ask yourself; how much did they hurt me? And is the possibility of a healthy relationship with them worth the risk of them doing their misdemeanour again? If it is, or if it isn’t then you have your answer!

(Remember to take account of others around you who are affected by your decision, particularly children. If you feel the relationship is worth saving but you are unable to make it work alone consider seeing a couple’s counsellor. A counsellor can help by mediating, teaching you to communicate in a more meaningful way and helping you see things from each other’s point of view. Always seek appropriate professional help immediately if you feel pressured or in danger.)

 

 

 

 

Kevin Humphrys Counselling

About Kevin Humphrys

I have been practising since 1995. I hold the BACP Certificate of Proficiency and practice to its Ethical Framework for Good Practice in Counselling and Psychotherapy. I hold an up-to-date DBS Enhanced Disclosure. I am also a Fellow of the Institute of Leadership & Management with many years experience as a Senior Executive & Consultant, a tutor for the Diploma in Counselling with the Blackford Centre for Counselling and have been a counsellor for the NHS Western Sussex Hospitals. My therapeutical approach to counselling is integrative, with an emphasis towards Behavioural Psychology. Using different approaches enables me to adapt my counselling modality to your presenting problem. The approaches I am able to incorporate into your therapy include the Psychodynamic approach, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Hypnotherapy & Mindfulness among others. Qualifications & Training Certificate in Trauma-Focused CBT - Medical University of South Carolina Certificate of Proficiency (CoP) - BACP Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy - Bideford, Devon Certificate in Adolescent Self-Harm & Suicide Ideation - Michigan State Uni Diploma in Project Management - Advance Learning Level 5 Diploma in Management - Institute of Leadership and Management Post-Graduate Diploma in Ministry – Oxford BA (Hons) Theology and Religious Studies - 2.1 - London Diploma in Counselling - New Horizons Open College Diploma in Pastoral Studies with Counselling - Oxford Certificate in Counselling - Westminster Pastoral Foundation I am available to help people with all sorts of problems. I can give you time and space to talk through your issues and help you develop strategies to change those things you can or altering your perspective with regards to those things you have no influence over.
This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.